ki s sing tips

 How many ways to ki s s?

Butterfly Ki s s - With your faces less than a breath away, open and close your eyelids against your partners. If done correctly, the fluttering sensation will match the one in your heart.

Cheek Ki s s - A friendly, "I really like you" ki s s. Often the preferred ki s sing method of a first date. With your hands on your partner's shoulders, gently brush your lips across her cheek.

Earlobe Ki s s - Gently sip and suck the earlobe. Avoid louder sucking noises as ears are sensitized noise detectors.

Eskimo Ki s s - With your faces less than a breath apart, gently rub your noses together.

Eye Ki s s - Hold your partner's head with both hands and slowly move their head in the direction you wish your ki s s to go... then slowly ki s s up towards your partner's eyes and give them a tender ki s s on top of their closed eyes.

Eyelid Ki s s - While your partner is resting/sleeping with eyes closed, very very gently ki s s the spot right below their browbone. A very intimate ki s s.

Finger Ki s s - While laying together gently suck on their fingers. This can be very seductive and pleasurable.

Foot K is s - An erotic and romantic gesture. It may tickle, but relax and enjoy it! To give a toe ki s s by gently suck the toes and then lightly       ki s sing the foot. It helps to gently massage the base of the foot while performing the Ki s s.

Forehead Ki s s - The "motherly" Ki s s or "just friends" Ki s s. The forehead Ki s s can be a comforting Ki s s to anyone. Simply brush your lips lightly across the crown of their head.

Freeze Ki s s (or Melt Ki s s) - Experiment with this fun Ki s s. Put a small piece of ice in your mouth, then open mouth and Ki s s your partner, passing them the ice with your tongue. It's an erotic and sensual french Ki s swith a twist of cold.

French Ki s s - The Ki s s involving the tongue. Some call this the "Soul Ki s s" because the life and soul are thought to pass through the mouth's breath in the exchange across tongues. Surprisingly, the French call this "The English Ki s s". 

Fruity Ki s s - Take a small piece of fruit and place between your lips (juicy fruits such as grapes, strawberries, small pieces of pineapple or mango are ideal). Ki s s your partner and nibble one half of the piece of fruit while they nibble the other until it breaks in half, allowing the juice to run into your mouths.

Hand Ki s s - Gently raise her hand to your lips. Lightly brush your lips across the top of her hand. Historically this Ki s s was performed with a bow, which showed deference to a lady.

Hickey Ki s s - The object is not to draw blood, but to gently leave a mark that will prove your interlude was not a dream. This is often included in erotic foreplay.

Hostage Ki s s - Cover your lips with tape and get your love's attention. When they come near, make noises like you're trying to tell them something and motion as if you can't get the tape off. Once they remove the tape from you to hear what you're trying to say tell them: "I've been saving my lips all day just for you!" Then Ki s s your love passionately!

H o t and Cold Ki s s - Lick your partner's lips so that they're warm, and then gently blow on them. The sudden cold blast makes for a sensual explosion, and they will often try it on you next, as well as get very passionate.

Mistletoe Ki s s - Surprise your lover by capturing them with a gentle holiday Ki s s under the mistletoe. This is also a good method for shyer individuals to steal a Ki s s from a potential lover.

Letter Ki s s - Send your lover a Ki s s in a love letter by writing the letter x several times in a row at the bottom of a letter such as X

Lick Ki s s - Just before Ki s sing, gently run your tongue along you partners lip whether it be the top or bottom one depending on the position of your lips. Very sensual. 

Neck Nibble Ki s s - Gently nibble up and down your partners neck. End with a gentle Ki s s on the lips.

Nip Ki s s - This Ki s s can create a very erotic sensation. While Ki s sing your partner, ever so gently nibble on their lips. You must be very careful not to bite to hard or hurt your partner. When done correctly, this Ki s s ignites wonderful sensations.

Reverse Lips Ki s s - It involves standing above your lover and Ki s sing them from over their head. This way, each Ki s ser can take the hyper-sensitive bottom lip of thier lover in their mouths, and GENTLY draw blood to the surface of the lip by nibbling and sucking. A very sensuous, connecting Ki s s.

Searching The Cavern - Use the lips and tongue to gently tickle and Ki s s your lover's navel. Vary speeds and stroke to change sensation. Invigorating and intoxicating.

Shoulder Ki s s - Simply come from behind, embrace her, and Ki s s the top of her shoulder. This is a sensual, loving Ki s s.

Sip Ki s s - Take a small sip of your favorite drink. Leaving a little bit of it on your lips, Ki s s your partner. It is a unique way to create a sensual feeling and your partner will enjoy it.

Talking Ki s s - Whisper sweet nothings into your partner's mouth. If caught in the act, simply say as Chico Marx, "I wasn't Ki s sing her. I was whispering into her mouth."

Teaser Ki s s - Starting on the forehead, a sweet short Ki s s on lips, then move up the arms up to her hand, Ki s s her hand, then come back up her arm, to her face and then lightly Ki s s her lips till she wants a passionate Ki s s.

The Buzzing Ki s s - Gently place your lips against your lover's neck , behind their ear. Now, send a shudder through their skin by gently growling and humming, vibrating your lips and cheeks as you do so. Move up and down the neck, over the bones of the face and lips. Stimulating and erotic when done correctly.

The Whipped Cream Ki s s - Dip your finger into some cool whip or whipped cream of your choice. Lick it off slowly, then embrace your partner and Ki s s them deeply letting their tongue slip over yours for a wonderfully sweet Ki s s. It's very seductive and passionate.

Tiger Ki s s - Quietly sneak up behind your partner making sure they do not know what you are going to do. Out of the blue, grab them and gently bite their neck. Make sure to get a few good growls in too. This will surely surprise them.

Trickle Ki s s - Take a sip of a favourite drink and trickle it slowly into partner's mouth while           Ki s sing.

Tongue Sucking - A variation of the French Ki s s. During an open-mouth Ki s s gently suck on your partner's tongue (not too hard because it may hurt). Very .... :-)

Quickie Ki s s - When you're in a rush. Often the nose gets it rather than the lips.

Vacuum Ki s s - While Ki s sing open-mouthed, slightly suck in as if you were sucking the air from your partners mouth. This is a playful Ki s s.

Wake Up Ki s s - Before your partner awakes lean over and Ki s s their cheek and move over giving soft Ki s ses until you reach their lips. Definitely a more than pleasant way to wake up!

Virtual Ki s s - For Internet lovers. Send an e-card or a Ki s s via email with this symbol: :-*   

Did You Know? 10 S e x Facts

What's the average size of a guy's equipment? Where can't you buy "marital aids" – and speaking of  S e x toys, why do some Japanese ones have happy faces on them? Get answers to these and seven more S e x y questions you probably never thought to ask here!

Top S e x facts

A recent visit to Manhattan's legendary Museum of S e x yielded more than a mob of 18-year-old girls giggling in the foyer – it provided an entertaining and educated look into the history of S e x.
Here are some little-known S e x facts that may surprise you – or at least give you ammunition for a fascinating dinner conversation!

The best medicine...

According to the Museum of S e x, the vibrator was originally used as a medicinal treatment for female "hysteria" during the 19th century. The vibrator-induced orgasms helped doctors dissipate hysteria's anxiety-related symptoms.

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Say cheese!

Semen contains zinc and calcium, both of which are proven to prevent tooth decay.

Hop to it

The iconic "Rabbit" is renowned for two things: excellent orgasm results and an odd smiley face on its tip. Women's Health tells us the smiley face was actually a result of conservative Japanese customs. Apparently, Japanese consumers frown upon "the production of S e x toys that too closely resemble phalluses," so the smiley face was added.
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Does he measure up?

The average size of an erect penis is five inches, and the average flaccid penis measures about 3 inches.


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The sad truth

While this S e x fact is neither entertaining nor humorous, it's shocking to note that homoS e xuality remained on the American Psychiatric Association's list of mental illnesses until 1973.

Protect our troops

Today the government issues "Support our Troops" paraphernalia; however government-issued brochures and videos featured a slightly different slogan during the WWII era – "Don't forget – Put it on before you put it in." During World War II, many soldiers returned home with venereal diseases, costing the government millions of dollars in medical expenses.

Work it

Hate the gym? You burn about 200 calories during 30 minutes of active S e x.
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What a tease!

Burlesque costumes are the epitome of S e x – think Dita Von Teese and lingerie; however, a few centuries ago, the outfits had a slightly different purpose. According to the Museum of S e x, merkins (the bottom half of burlesque costumes) were originally created as "pubic wigs" for 15th century prostitutes. The designs helped hide pubic lice and syphilis symptoms. Make sure to share this information with your boyfriend the next time he heads to Vegas with the boys.

Justice is served

In Hong Kong, adulterous husbands get more than a steep monthly alimony payment – a betrayed wife is legally allowed to kill her husband if he cheats on her – but she may only do so with her bare hands.

What ever happened to Southern comfort?

The sale of S e x toys and vibrators is banned in Alabama and Mississippi.

1950s S e x education film

How To Ki s s A Man - Top Ki s sing Tips For Women

So you want to know how to be a good Ki s s? Ki s sing is something that many of us do on a regular basis, but as with all things, we can probably benefit from a few good   Ki s sing tips for improved technique.

It is an unfortunate fact that           Ki s sing is not always something that comes naturally; it is rather an art that needs to be learned, practiced and improved upon.

If you would like to improve your Ki s sing skills, here are a number of helpful Ki s sing tips you can try, even if it is the first time you are    Ki s sing someone new.

Ki s sing Preparation
First, make sure you are ready and properly “prepped” for Ki s sing.

Of course, some Ki s ses will be spontaneous and catch you off guard, and some Ki s ses are simply “greeting” Ki s ses and are not meant to be particularly passionate.

When you are planning for a good old-fashioned make-out session that could lead to something more, the first of many Ki s sing tips you need to follow is making sure you are adequately prepared.

So how do you prep yourself for some good Ki s sing action?
For starters, you will want to smell good—all over your body.

The sense of smell in art of Ki s sing is a sensual part of the whole essence of Ki s sing and you want to make sure your overall scent takes his breath away and makes him want to Ki s s you more.A light lotion on your skin is a good idea, which will produce a pleasant scent and also make your skin soft and smooth.

Make sure you also put on some deodorant and a hint (not too much) of a complementary body spray or perfume.

Lingering scents that are not too strong are made by taking a bath with soft, natural oil. Lavender and rose oil extract are the most popular and romantic.

Do not forget about your breath.

Your breath is an overwhelming force in the Ki s sing department—good or bad—and far too often women forgo this seemingly obvious yet important Ki s sing technique. Bad breath is not just an issue for men.
Brushing your teeth every morning and night is great, but make sure you give them an extra scrub (with minty toothpaste) before your Ki s sing session.

Remember to brush your tongue, too, as it can harbor unpleasant germs and bacteria, particularly if you plan to Ki s s with it.

If you struggle with bad breath, you may want to use a bacteria-fighting mouthwash, suck on some mints, or chew some fresh gum—but remember to spit it out before you start Ki s sing!

Another important consideration in the Ki s sing tips domain is the condition of your lips and make-up.

You want your lips to be soft, supple, and Ki s sable—not slimy or rough during the art of Ki s sing. You may want to try “exfoliating” some of the dead skin cells off your lips, which will help to achieve this desired effect.

After applying a hint of lip balm or even just water, gently rub your lips with an old toothbrush. Also, think about your make-up. A touch of tasteful, natural-looking make-up is fine, but definitely do not overdo it.
Most men do not like a lot of make-up while Ki s sing, especially lipstick that can smear all over the place. A little bit of lip balm should do the trick.

A Ki s s is an intimate touch and contact that conveys passion and desire.

It is a form of body communication that can express more than words ever could. Your Ki s s is also very personal, it will change based on who you are Ki s sing and why.

A nervous, first time Ki s s with a certain someone is going to be very different, mechanically speaking, from the Ki s s between a couple that has been together forever.

Yet both Ki s ses convey desire and a need for the passionate touch of lips between two people.

A real Ki s s, an honest Ki s s, delivers more than the touch of lips. A Ki s s opens the heart and soul to another. Knowing how to be a good Ki s ser during the initiation is trying to go with the flow and the feeling.

You don’t want to be too forward, but keep in mind that some guys like it when a woman makes the first move, especially if they have been together for awhile. For the first few Ki s ses, go nice and slow, and Ki s s gently.

French Ki s sing Tips

If you want to know how to be a good Ki s ser that creates that “butterfly in the stomach” Ki s s, begin with a light brush of the hand on the face or nape of the neck. Hold there, for just a moment---long enough for him to want more but not long enough for him to start thinking about something else.

The next step is to move towards him, face to face, while making eye contact. Let him know with eye contact that you want his Ki s s and that he really wants your Ki s s.

Brush your lips on his gently at first, followed by a slow opening of the mouth. The art of Ki s sing is heightened when you close your eyes at the point where your mouth opens to his.

Now we move on to some French Ki s sing tips for technique.

First, keep your lips soft and slightly opened, in a gently inviting and receptive way. Do not press them together tightly, but also avoid opening them too wide. Drooling and too much saliva is almost always a turn-off for both men and women.

   On the other hand, there are women and men who like a steamy, sloppy, wet Ki s sing. A Ki s s basically boils down to what the couple finds passionate.

A h o t, wet Ki s s usually starts off strong and invasive. It floods the mouth with a tongue and opens the mouth wide. A wet Ki s s can sometimes include licking of the lips and around the lips; even the face can be licked.

Not something for everyone, but certainly something that some will enjoy, the wet Ki s s doesn’t think about properness or drool; it simply ignores these very mundane things. A wet Ki s s is generally so intense that neither person notices, or cares.

Keep in mind that not everybody is a fan of the French Ki s s, women and men included, so don’t feel like you have to French Ki s s to enjoy a healthy and Ki s sing session.
You may want to first use your tongue to gently tickle his lips and/or the edge of his teeth (some men find this very ....) before connecting your tongue with his.

When your tongues do touch, pause to see how he reacts. If it’s positive, continue Ki s sing and gently stroke the back of his neck. French Ki s sing tips include the two basic types of Ki s ses used in the art of Ki s sing: deep tongue and light tongue. Deep tongue invades the mouth and the throat; it is an act of appeal and uncompromised strength.

Light tongue is a brush of the tips of the tongue on the lips and inside the mouth. This conveys appeal and a type of wanting innocence.Slowly introduce your tongue into his mouth while Ki s sing. 

 Both types of Ki s sing are fine; there is no right or wrong way to Ki s s.

Keep in mind, however, that each person prefers a different type of Ki s s, so if you feel uncomfortable or sense that he is feeling uncomfortable, it is perfectly fine to stop for a moment and take a breather.

You can always use a cute, flirtatious comment to let him know what type of Ki s s you want, and remember to ask him what type of Ki s s he likes.

You can also feel out a Ki s sing style by going with his natural flow for awhile and then switching to yours if they are different.

Once you have been Ki s sing for awhile and you are in a nice “Ki s sing groove,” the key is to go with the flow and just do what feels right. A good Ki s ser never does things that are awkward or forced. 

You could begin to gently explore his mouth, start Ki s sing other body parts, wrap your arms around him, and slowly move your hands around his body. Try to sense his reception.

Ki s sing Communication

Probably one of the best tips for Ki s sing out there is communication. Everyone Ki s ses differently, and everyone likes different things. So do not forget to communicate with your man regarding all things Ki s sing-related.

This may be somewhat awkward, especially in the beginning of your relationship, but just like , if you don’t talk about it, you will never know what he likes, what he does not like, what you are doing right, what you are doing wrong, and how you can improve your Ki s sing technique.

And don’t be afraid to tell him what you like and dislike about the art of Ki s sing.

No one is the perfect Ki s ser, and he should be receptive to your feedback and suggestions. If he’s not, then maybe it is time to move on and find someone else to Ki s s!

Remember that while these are certainly helpful and useful Ki s sing tips, they are not Ki s sing rules—just guidelines.

There really is no such thing as one perfect Ki s s that every couple must conquer.

Each woman, man, and couple will define their perfect Ki s s differently and that perfect Ki s s can change and also come in many forms.

Never feel like you have to do something you don’t want to, whether it makes you uncomfortable or you just don’t enjoy it.

Most importantly, have fun! While there is some effort involved in perfecting your Ki s sing skills, it should mostly be a fun, enjoyable activity for both of you.

Are You A Good Ki s ser?

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Ki s sing Tips for Girls

A Ki s s triggers strong emotions like love, passion and intimacy. Everybody wants to be a good       Ki s ser, no matter what their age. Ki s sing like any other art, gets better with practice. Here are      Ki s sing tips for girls that will help you to become a good Ki s ser, you have always wanted to be.

There is a huge difference between the psychology of men and women. Women generally Ki s s when they are overwhelmed by emotions. Guys Ki s s when they feel passionate about something. You need to understand what a guy wants from a Ki s s. So, what do men want? Guys want you to look great all the time. Did you ever ponder, that only girls like compliments? Well, guys are also humans and they have an emotional side too. Never put a guy down.

Along with complimenting him, you can also boost his confidence in certain situations. Guys like to have a companion who is fun. Guys like to talk and want you to listen attentively and treat them with respect. When guys are Ki s sing, oxytocin hormone levels rise in their body, which is why they look for passion in a Ki s s. If you keep these things in mind about guys, the Ki s s will be more fulfilling and a deeper experience for both of you.

Ki s sing Tips And Tricks
Now that you understand the way guys feel, use these tips.

Hygiene
Hygiene is the most important Ki s sing tip for girls as your bad breath might repel the guy. Always maintain oral hygiene, and brush your teeth well before a date. If you think you have bad breath, then use a mouthwash after brushing, and carry a small mouthwash bottle in your purse. Always carry some mints in your purse, if you think you are going to be Ki s sing on a date. You can also carry a mild lip balm or gloss with you to moisturize lips.

Dress-up Pretty
Always look your best ladies, this is also one of the important Ki s sing tips. Sometimes a spontaneous Ki s s will be memorable. But always be ready and dress-up pretty. As both of you will be very close to each other while Ki s sing, always smell good and use a mild perfume.

Moisturize Skin & Lips
Moisturize your skin with a good lotion. Exfoliate your lips. You can do this, by scrubbing your lips with a toothbrush and paste. Keep your lips well moisturized and supple, you can do this by using a lip balm. If you like to wear lipstick, always wear one that is light-toned. Keep your make-up light and natural and don't overdo it. Guys don't like too much make-up when they are about to Ki s s a girl.

Go Slow
If you are going to Ki s s for the first time, always go slow and be caring. Generally, guys make the first move, but if you have been dating your guy for a while, he would like you to make the first move. Do you have doubts about how to Ki s s a guy for the first time? Be bold and make the first move. Your guy will probably find it a refreshing change.

Body & Eye Language
Majority of the communication between a pair is non-verbal. So, apart from talking to your guy, use body language and expressions like good posture, gestures, and facial expressions. Eyes are very important and express multiple emotions. When one is looking at somebody affectionately, he or she imagines a triangle, with two points of the triangle, at the eyes and the third point at the lips. Picture this triangle on your partner's face, whenever you want to Ki s s him. This is an unconscious signal, people send to others, but by using it consciously with your guy, you will have his attention.

Signal
Also, if you want him to Ki s s you, keep looking into his eyes and then look at his lips. This is a very clear signal, and if he desires to Ki s s you, he will definitely make his move.

Erogenous Zones
A woman can be sensitive all over her body. But guys have specific sensitive areas, that is, the erogenous zones in their lower body. Lips have a lot of nerve endings and therefore are very sensitive. Guys are sensitive on their lips, so if you give your guy a little pout, look at him in a flirtatious manner, and if you just touch his lips lightly with your fingers, he will definitely want to Ki s s you.

Use Shyness to Tease Him
Shyness can be a big obstruction, if you want to Ki s s your guy. Guys like being Ki s sed, so do not be shy. But, use shyness to tease him. Guys like that! Also don't tease him for too long or he might lose interest in Ki s sing.

Glasses & Braces
If you or your guy wear glasses, take them off before Ki s sing. If your guy wears braces, do not put pressure on his lips and keep the Ki s s gentle.

Cold/Flu
Another important thing is, if any of you is suffering from cold or flu then avoid Ki s sing.

Tips on French Ki s sing
French Ki s sing is one of the most romantic and sensual of all Ki s ses. It is an extremely impassioned Ki s s. Thanks to the use of the tongue, which has a very sensitive surface. Here, are the tips on French Ki s sing.

Passion
This is a very passionate Ki s s. To French Ki s s your guy, move closer to your guy and touch him on his shoulder. Look at his eyes and then at his lips. The guy will tilt his head and lean closer to Ki s s you. If not, touch him lightly on his lips with your fingers and then move your hand towards the nape of his neck. Play with his hair and brush your lips softly on his lips and start Ki s sing him with your lips. Wait for the guy's response before you use your tongue! You can bite him lightly on his lower lip. When you feel his tongue, gently play with his tongue. To deepen your Ki s s, caress his back and move closer to his body. End the Ki s s slowly and gently and again look into his eyes and smile.

Tongue Action
It is not necessary for you to use your tongue when French Ki s sing. But remember ladies, guys like passion when it comes to Ki s sing. So, you can try tracing his lips and mouth with your tongue.

Privacy
Also when Ki s ssing passionately, do it in private, so that it's comfortable for both of you. A Ki s s in several cases can lead to making out. If you are comfortable with your boyfriend and trust him enough then go ahead for a deeper experience, otherwise end the Ki s s slowly.

Go Rough
If you have been dating your guy for a while, then try this bold technique of Ki s sing. Grab his shirt in one hand and his hair with the other hand and start Ki s sing him. Put your body weight on him and Ki s s him passionately. You can also bite his lips and use your tongue to deepen your Ki s s.

Chemistry
All the above tips and techniques will help you learn, how to be a good Ki s ser. But remember, it is not necessary for the situation to be perfect. If you are sitting close enough and you want to check your chemistry with your partner, go ahead and Ki s s him.

New Ki s sing & Make Out Tips
Some of you might already have Ki s sed many times. However, here are some tips to turn the heat a notch up.

Synch It
While Ki s sing him set-up a rhythm. There are many ways to do this. You can set the rhythm with the 'in and out motion of tongue' while Ki s sing, to the 'scraping of his nape of neck up and down'. Or you can 'trace circles on his ear' with your tongue, while 'drawing circles on his thigh' with your fingers.

Mix It Up
For this make out technique you need to get in the flow. You can start by giving him small but slow pecks on his eyes, forehead, temples, cheek, jaw and neck. Then give soft Ki s ses on the lips, on the edges of the lips, in the middle of the lips... Start nibbling on his lips, then soothe it by licking. You can also trace his lip's shape with your tongue. Keep Ki s sing him this way, and while you are Ki s sing him make sure you keep touching his hair, neck, arms, chest, back, etc. You can end such a Ki s s with small pecks on the lips, and rest your head on his chest after the Ki s s is over. Ending the Ki s s this way will make the experience intimate, and give you some time to normalize your breathing!

Straddle Him
When he is sitting, straddle his hips and start French Ki s sing him. You can go rough in this kind of Ki s s, by tugging at his hair or clothes and leaning on his body.

Go Spontaneous
When you think he is not aware of you, for example when he's sleeping or involved with something, then surprise him by Ki s sing him slowly on the lips and slip your hands under his shirt. Guys love when a girl initiates in Ki s sing/making out, when they are not aware of it.

Balance the Passion
It is possible that sometimes one of you might be controlling the Ki s sing or making out, you can shift this. If he is Ki s sing you passionately, then put your body weight on him, pull his hair a bit and nibble him and Ki s s him hard. If you are Ki s sing him passionately and are in control, then place his hands on your waist/butt, this will turn him on and put him in control.

Unique Ways to Ki s s
Trying a different kind of Ki s s will surprise him, and get him turned on. Also, it will keep things between you guys fresh and playful. Here are some unique ways.

Spiderman Ki s s
The upside-down Ki s s is awesome, and very new. When he's sitting on the couch, stand behind the couch and start Ki s sing him on the lips and keep one hand on his chest. Keep alternating by            Ki s sing his upper and lower lip, the spidy style!

Cute Eye & Eskimo Ki s s
There are many types of Ki s ses that you can try, but two of the cutest are the Eskimo and eye Ki s s. When you are feeling affectionate towards your partner, peck on his nose or eyes tenderly.

Different Setting
If you have already Ki s sed your guy many times, then surprise him by Ki s sing in some unusual    Ki s s. Plant one on him in a lift, under an umbrella when it's raining, his parent's place, in the bathroom, etc. This will surprise him but pleasantly!

Fruity Lipstick
Buy some fruity lipstick or balm. If you can find his favorite fruit and get that flavor lipstick then it's even better. Apply the lipstick/balm and start Ki s sing him on the lips, it will be a new experience.

Teasing Ki s s
Here's something fun you can try. Ki s s him very slowly on the jaw, then on the eyes, then on a cheek, then on forehead, then ear, then cheek again. Now, go close to his lips but hold back for few seconds and then Ki s s him on the lips.

Ki s s from the Back
If you see he's standing, then hug him from behind, and start pecking him softly on neck and ears. Once he turns around start Ki s sing him on the mouth.

Here's a little secret! 'If you balance your Ki s s with the right passion and use the above tips, you can have a strong effect on your guy'. Start Ki s sing your guy with enough warmth and love, but also deepen your Ki s s by showing some passion towards your guy, and he will remember the Ki s s and the Ki s ser for a long time. So, keep Ki s sing because, as Levende Waters said "A Ki s s seals two souls for a moment in time."

Top 50 Best S e x Tips

We mined hundreds of Men's Health articles about S e x and relationships to find the all-time best tips we've ever given about meeting women, wooing them, and being the best lover they've ever had. You can thank us later.

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S e x isn't a Race
S e x isn't a race, so take time to explore her. Focus on her thighs and lower belly. Make a mental circle 2 inches around the outside of her vagina and don't cross the line while you  k is s, lick, and caress.

Give Her Plenty of Time
If you want morning S e x, set your alarm at least 20 minutes early. A woman won't want S e xif she's hurried, and she'll probably need about 20 minutes to reach orgasm.

Grunts are Better Than Nothing
She'll give longer and more enthusiastic oral S e xif you give her a verbal response. Even appreciative grunts are better than silence.

Vary the Stimulation
When you're all the way inside her, add side-to-side movement or up-and-down pelvic pressure against her clitoris to vary the stimulation.

Make a Fantasy Lottery
Both you and your lady write five S e xual fantasies down on five separate notebook cards. Then head to a restaurant where you can get a booth and some privacy in a public setting. Over dinner and wine, pull out the cards and make three piles—"yes," "maybe someday," and "not on your life." Put the possibles in a shoe box, and once a month pull out a winner.

Mimic Her Style
Ask her to ki s s your earlobe with the same pressure she prefers during oral, then cop her style next time you're south of the border.

Exercise Together
Work out together. Think of it as fat-burning foreplay. It will raise her dopamine levels, easing her anxieties. Bonus: Your post-run sweat has androstadienone, a testosterone derivative that spikes her arousal when she smells it.

Ignore Bombshells
Remain calm when a decked-out bombshell strolls by and you'll be sending the message that you're too smart to be wowed by a Wonderbra and red lipstick.

Give Her the Perfect Compliment
The best compliments are the ones that involve multiple senses. "You have beautiful breasts" is nice. "You have beautiful breasts—they feel so soft and warm in my hands" is that much more intimate.

Don't Give in to Temptation
If a woman who knows you're spoken for comes on to you, it's flattering. It's tempting. But remember that she's doing it to feed her own ego, not yours. She wants to see how much power she holds over you. And if you take her bait, she then knows she must be superior in every way to your sweetie. Deep down, she has nothing but contempt for both your male weakness and your mate's existence. That should really piss you off.

Find Her G-Spot
Use your thumb to press on her G-spot, as if you were making a thumbprint on her vaginal wall. You're shooting for the area about 2 inches inside the vaginal opening, on the front side.

Use Your Tongue Wisely
When k i s sing, don't use your tongue like a dart (in and out, in and out). Instead, try varying motions and amounts of pressure.

Doggy-Style the Right Way
Doggy-style tip: For over-the-top stimulation of her most nerve-packed parts, keep thrusting short and shallow, rather than deep and fast.

Tell Her What She Wants to Hear
Words she loves to hear: "I want to make you feel good."

Hang Out with Your Married Pals
Looking for The One? Don't abandon your spoken-for friends. A guy with a wife or live-in girlfriend has an expanded social circle—meaning he knows more women (that he could potentially introduce you to) than he did when he was single.

Keep Contact Indirect
The nerve-packed clitoris actually extends several inches under the skin on either side of her vagina (like a wishbone), which means you can massage it without direct pressure to the bud. Trace the extensions with flat, wide, extra-wet tongue strokes or slow finger zigzags. (Don't forget lube.) Then rub a slow spiral around the top, drawing closer with each pass. The combo of anticipation and indirect contact will bring her pleasure centers to life.

Send Her a Letter
Write her a letter—one that does not involve a laser printer or an e-mail address. Write what you feel, but the ruling sentiment should be one of gratitude and confidence in your future together. Then mail it to her.

Give Her a V
To increase clitoral contact when she's on top, make a V with two fingers, and place it so the point of the V (just between the two knuckles) is directly over her clitoris. Your fingers should come down on either side of your penis as she rides you. This will stimulate the clitoris, inner labia, and urethra—as well as add intensity for you.

Call Her within 48 Hours
A beautiful woman gave you her number; use it within 48 hours. Otherwise, you'll look scared—or stupid for resorting to high-school mind games.

Leave a Confident Voicemail
If you get her voicemail, leave a message. To convey confidence, your voice should be deep and moderately loud. Stand up and hum a little before you call—it will bring your voice to the ideal pitch.

Don't Go South During Foreplay
During foreplay, agree that the genitals are off-limits. Touch the other parts of her body, using fingers, a feather, a silk scarf, or anything that turns her on, and ask her to describe how it feels. This builds the tension until you're both ready to explode.

Ease into Dirty Talk
Want to know if she likes to talk dirty? Tell her, "You make me think dirty thoughts." Ease in slowly. It's best to test the waters a bit, rather than immediately go for your deepest, kinkiest dirty talk right off the bat.

Flatter Her 5 Times a Day
Compliment her at least 5 times a day. It'll make her feel special, appreciated, and closer to you. And the more connected she feels, the more S e xually inspired she'll feel.

Shop for Cologne She Likes
If you don't have a cologne that she likes, shop for one with her. It's a form of foreplay.

Hold Her Hand
Holding hands can work as an aphrodisiac. It shows her you're devoted and proud to tell the world.

Assume a New Position
Assume the Cuban Plunge S e xposition: As you assume the man-on-top position, ask her to bring her knees to her chest and drape her legs over your shoulders. Her vagina will be elongated and extended, and your penetration will be deeper and more pleasurable for her, which qualifies as a win-win situation.

Praise Her
Compliment her in front of your friends.

Just K i ss
The next time you k is s her, don't try to steal second. Just ki s s. Men use ki s sing primarily as a means to an end—to advance S e xual relations. Yet women mainly use ki s sing as a way to monitor the status of the relationship, and especially a partner's commitment level.

Keep the Lights Low
One of the biggest reasons women can't relax during S e xis body image. Keep the lights low. A candle? Perfect.

Show Her Passion
"Passion" means being in the moment and not being distracted. S e xis a conversation, and she doesn't want to feel like you wish you had your BlackBerry.

Whisper Fantasies in Public
Lie on a blanket in a park, with people all around, and whisper fantasies to one another, sparing no detail. You'll create S e xual tension—but with safety, as there's no possibility of S e xthen and there.

Create Anticipation
Use anticipation as an aphrodisiac. Instead of tearing her clothes off, take your time. Tell her what you want to do with each section of exposed skin.

Tell Her to Go Slow
Words she loves to hear: "It's OK to go slow." Say it and mean it.

Sit at a 90-Degree Angle
On a dinner date, always position yourself at a 90-degree angle to her rather than straight on. If she sits at the end of the table, sit in the first seat to her left. Turn toward her from the waist, which will give her the opportunity to turn toward you.

Don't Agree to Disagree
When you and your girlfriend disagree, never agree to disagree. Agreeing to disagree shuts down the communication process and resolves nothing. And the less comfortable she feels communicating, the less confident she'll feel about the relationship.

Ask Her for a K is sing Lesson
Ask her to demonstrate what she considers a S e x y ki s s. Then let her do all the work. It's educational...and fun.

Mix Things Up in Bed
Don't be afraid to mix things up in bed. S e xual novelty re-creates those early-relationship, take-me-now hormones.

Fund a S e x y Shopping Spree
Fund an erotic shopping spree. Write out a gift certificate with an expiration date that coincides with your evening at a hotel. If she prefers to shop alone, let her—either way, you'll find out what interests her.

Start Volunteering
Join a volunteer group. Selflessness is S e x y—and research has shown that women consider altruism more important than men do. To show your selfless stuff, join a Meetup volunteer group

Start S e x in a New Place
Start S e x outside the bedroom. The same old place leads to the same old patterns. So explore some new erogenous areas: The kitchen. The bathroom. Quebec City. Your bodies will be in new places, making it unlikely that you'll follow old routines.

Offer Her Chocolate
Feed her chocolate: It'll load her up with phenylethylamine, a neurotransmitter that activates the brain's pleasure center, and caffeine, which can jolt her S e x drive.

Ride in an Overnight Train
Take an overnight train with your girlfriend or wife. There's the excitement of traveling in a novel way. And there's your sleeping compartment. It's a new place—and it moves, which adds a new dynamic to S e x. And it's somewhat public: There's the excitement when you're in flagrante delicto as the train stops, and people are outside your window.

Use Appliances as Vibrators
Here's a new place to have S e x: on the washer. Your washing machine produces more vibration than any other appliance in the home. When your butt's on the lid, the motion is transmitted through your penis, essentially turning your member into a life-size vibrator.

Use Your Beanbag Chair
Another new place to have S e x: in a beanbag chair. You can contour it to any shape, and it'll support you in unaccustomed ways. Doggy-style S e x works great when she's on her belly, draped over the amorphous blob (that's the chair, not you).

Have S e x in a Forest
New Place to Have S e x III: a national park. If the missus likes to vocalize, pitch your tent in Alaska's Denali National Park, where 6 million untamed acres and a crowd-thinning permit system leave little risk of waking the neighbors. She'll gasp in delight when the midnight sun bathes the Big One (that's Mt. McKinley, buddy) in salmon pink light.

Stop the Elevator
New Place to Have S e x IV: the elevator. Try a freight elevator. It won't have an alarm, and you can stop it between floors for more privacy.

Seduce Her in Your Car
Relive the past. Take her to the garage and reclaim a space you long ago ceded: Seduce her in the backseat of the car. It feels a little public, it's steeped in testosterone, and there's a throwback, high-school quality to it.

Earn Your Right to Experiment
S e xual experimentation is earned, not inherited. It requires time, tact, and trust: 66 percent of the women we surveyed said they're most willing to experiment later in a relationship.

Give Her a Proper Warmup
Clitoral contact in particular feels abrasive without a proper warmup. If a woman yips or inhales suddenly when you go there—instead of purring or moaning—you've jumped the gun.

Try a New S e x Position
Try the Yab-Yum S e xposition: You both sit up, and she faces you, sitting on your lap with a pillow under her bottom for easier penetration. You'll have constant contact with her clitoris, but she'll control the pressure.

1 in 20 men fall asleep during s..x

A man’s body chemistry changes after orgasm,” says David McKenzie, a s..x therapist in Vancouver. “The biochemical prolactin is released, physically altering his body and making him very tired.” In contrast, women may not orgasm every time they have s..x. So, after rocking your lover’s world, you may still be semi-aroused and have the energy to talk about love and life while he’s drifting off todreamland.

Mark Leyner and Billy Goldberg, M.D., authors of Why Do Men Fall Asleep After s..x? , offer an additional biological explanation: “It is thought that exertion during s..x and after climax depletes the muscles of energy-producing glycogen. This leaves men feeling sleepy. Since men have more muscle mass than women, menbecome more tired after s..x.” Leyner and Goldberg state that there is little direct evidence to explain men falling asleep, though, after orgasm, the chemicals oxytocin, prolactin, gamma amino butyric acid (GABA) and endorphins all contribute to that “roll over and snore” feeling.

Love Tips - How to get a DATE

Step #1

The first impression. Before you approach a girl or women, you need to know a few obvious
formalities. Be clean - be sure you are wearing attractive cologne, clean clothes, and fresh breath. Woman notice the smallest details, so bad breath or B.O . will be one of the first impressions of you and you don't want that. Depending on what kind of girl you want to go after, you should always wear clean, fitting clothes; stains or overlarge clothes are a indication of what kind of lifestyle you live and you want to give her the best impression possible. Right before you approach her, you should put your confident but not cocky and witty but not corny cap on because that is the next thing that girls will be attracted to after your looks.

Step #2

The Actual Date. Be a gentleman, open the door for her, take her coat and be considerate. This will be an indication to her that you care about her and that you know how to treat a woman. Take her out somewhere where both of you enjoy going. Having the same common interests is important in a relationship because you will be able to hold a conversation on a topic you and her agree on. This way you will avoid fights.

If you are taking her out somewhere to eat, split the price in half between the two of you since this is your first date. By doing this, she will realize that she is an equal to you. If she is one that is very 'high class', pay the bill but next time offer to split the bill because if you don't, she might think of you as 'the supplier'. Try to hold conversation and let her talk about herself.

Ask questions about her career, school or personality, woman love to talk about themselves, simply because they know themselves the best! Don't mumble, make sure to speak clearly because that might be a sign of an insecurity. If you guys have a conversation where both you of enjoy it, it is a sure way to make plans for your next date. Which brings me to my next point.

Step #3

Conclusion of the date. If she is smiling and giving good body language, you might be in for a next date. If you guys were different and different opinioned, it might be a sign to look for another girl. Ask her directly if she would like to go out with you again and if she is making excuses, she isn't interested, but if she responds positively, get her number and plan a next date.

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Love Tips - The Most Amazing 101 Romantic Ideas

1. Remember to say "I love you" and "I need you" often.

2. Walk hand in hand in the rain.

3. Write a love poem.

4. Call a radio station and dedicate a favorite song.

5. Write "I Love You" in lipstick or shaving cream on the mirror.

6. Hide love notes in a lunch box, briefcase or purse.

7. Make heart-shaped cinnamon toast for breakfast.

8. Place a love note in the personals section of the newspaper.

9. Take a carriage ride around the city.

10. Plan a surprise getaway.

11. Do your mate's household chores.

12. Write notes on future dates in their date book ("I love you," I miss you," etc.)

13. Make reservations at a favorite restaurant.

14. Let them choose the movie.

15. Give a foot massage.

16. Make a heart-shaped bookmark, and place it in their book.

17. Pop in a romantic music CD and slow dance.

18. Throw a just-because surprise party for two.

19. Buy a stuffed animal for your honey.

20. Read each other's horoscopes.

21. Make a list of the top 10 things you love about your partner.

22. Display it in a prominent place.

23. Tattoo your mate's name on your body.

24. Make an album or scrapbook of your favorite memories together.

25. Go camping together and only take one sleeping bag.

26. Send a mushy message in a bottle...a balloon...a sandwich...Cut out a silly cartoon that you know they'd enjoy.

27. Shower together.

28. Dim the lights, and snuggle together on the couch.

29. Be the first to say "I'm sorry" and kiss and make up.

30. Give each other a full-body massage.

31. Kiss every hour on the hour all day long.

32. Send a gift basket of indulgent items.

33. Write "I'm hot for you" in the steam on the bathroom mirror.

34. Ribbon wrap your bed with a big bow.

35. Fill up the gas tank of your partner's car.

36. Act like teenagers.

37. Maybe even pierce something!

38. Show up with a bouquet of flowers -- for no reason at all.

39. Play Scrabble® together, using as many "love" words as you can.

40. Run a warm bubble bath for your partner, with lots of lit candles.

41. Meet in the park for a picnic.

42. Hold hands.

43. Leave a trail of rose petals through the house, leading to a romantic candlelight dinner.

44. Make a donation in your mate's name to a special cause or charity.

45. Pick up their clothes from the floor -- without saying a word about it.

46. Watch an old black and white romantic movie and share a bowl of popcorn.

47. Reenact your first date.

48. Surprise your partner with tickets to a special event.

49. An unexpected hug can brighten any day.

50. Buy a silly, impromptu gift.

51. Send an email just to say "I'm thinking of you."

52. Bring home a balloon bouquet.

53. Serve breakfast in bed.

54. Make an ornament with a picture of both of you for the Christmas tree.

55. Play tag.

56. Wash and wax your partner's car, and leave a little note on the dashboard.

57. Plant a garden together.

58. Leave a mushy message on voicemail.

59. Stay at a hotel for the night, just because.

60. Make angels in the snow.

61. Every time you say "hello" or "goodbye", seal it with a hug and a kiss.

62. Take a drive in the country.

63. Spend the evening looking at the stars -- and make a wish together.

64. Cast a playful wink any time, anywhere.

65. Think up a list of silly little pet names for times when you're alone together.

66. Read poetry to each other.

67. Celebrate your half-birthdays together.

68. Put a picture of both of you in your wallet.

69. Buy that favorite book or CD for no reason at all.

70. Send a care package to work filled with treats like food, photos, candy, a love note, heart-shapedconfetti, etc.

71. Go out for the evening and tell people you're on your honeymoon.

72. Take a hike together and carve your initials in a tree.

73. Write a thank you note for all the things you take for granted.

74. Make a fire in the fireplace and roast marshmallows.

75. Tape your favorite TV show and spend the evening talking.

76. Do the dishes together, then apply hand lotion to each other's hands.

77. Write a love letter to your partner and cut it into jigsaw puzzle pieces.

78. Decide on secret signals and use them to communicate with each other in large groups of people.

79. Schedule a regular mid-week "date night" for just the two of you.

80. Do the laundry together.

81. Romance Theater Weekend: reenact each other's favorite love scene - hers on Friday, his on Saturday.

82. Call your partner at work and ask for a date.

83. Pretend you haven't seen each other for a month.

84. Act accordingly.

85. Send a written invitation to do something special.

86. Take turns reading to each other.

87. Stand outside the window and sing a romantic song.

88. Hide favorite candy in your partner's coat pockets.

89. Put a tape recording of your voice (saying anything) in the car stereo and turn it on so it plays when the car starts.

90. Go to a drive-in movie.

91. Get up to turn off the last light after you're both comfy-cozy in bed.

92. Hold each other tight during a thunderstorm.

93. Make a tape recording of favorite love songs.

94. Leave a bunch of bananas on the kitchen table with a note, "I go bananas over you!"

95. Hide love notes in a magazine.

96. Declare your undying love via a telegram.

97. Make a romantic dinner together, and serve it on your finest china.

98. Surprise your partner with a big kiss on the neck.

99. Share an ice cream cone.

100. Have a picnic on the living room floor.

101. Draw a silly picture of the two of you.

Love Tips - What does height have to do with finding love?

She Says vs. He Says: What's Height Got to Do With Love?

Agreeing on the "right height" for a healthy relationship has been a hot topic since before Darwin tried to explain why both genders finally stood up. In this debate, authors Christine Hassler and Jason Ryan Dorsey attempt to demystify what each gender thinks about height and its impact on dating. This discussion is particularly important for single people who want to improve their chances of finding a date online by adjusting their personal height stats.

SHE SAYS: When it comes to initial attraction, height matters. A woman wants to look up to a man, both literally and figuratively. Now I know a lot of women may disagree with me here and say it's all about equality, but when it comes to height, many women aren't drawn to a level playing field. I don't know if it's feeling a taller man can better protect us or simply look good on holiday postcards, but short guys definitely have to work harder to stand out in a crowd.

But here is the thing, if you take the time to get beyond the superficial stuff and see someone for who they are, then height doesn't matter at all. When it comes to love, physical attraction may spark a relationship but it rarely sustains one. And, hey, as a woman, I know that there's a lot a guy has to offer when he is not standing. The things that matter when it comes to love are whether or not your values, life goals, priorities, and communication skills align -- not whether you can see over him when you wear your favorite stiletto heels.

HE SAYS: As a guy who is vertically mediocre, I don't think height is the deciding factor when it comes to falling in love -- unless you want your future children to play college basketball on scholarship. However, when a short guy shows up at a restaurant on a date with a much taller woman you know that some of the other guys in the place are thinking, "What does he do?" That particular situation has never happened to me, but it sure sounds cool. What I do know is that love doesn't come with a minimum height requirement like a ride at Six Flags. Sometimes the one you end up falling head over 3-inch heels for doesn't necessarily fit your "type," but then maybe she is exactly your type after all. I mean you may not end up seeing eye-to-eye on your wedding day, but that shouldn't matter because you can always PhotoShop the pictures. I did.

Love Tips - Are You in Love? 11 Signs You LOVE Someone

ONE:

 You just scrolled up to check & are now silently laughing at yourself

TWO:

You were so busy thinking about that person, you didn't notice number seven was missing

THREE:

 While reading this, there was one person on your mind this whole time.

FOUR:

 You would do anything for them, just to see them.

FIVE:

You realize you're always smiling when you're looking at them.

SIX:

They're all you think about.

SEVEN:

When you look at them, you can't see the other people around you, you just see him/her.

    

 EIGHT:

You smile when you hear their voice.

NINE:

You feel shy whenever they're around.

TEN:

You walk really slow when you're with them.

ELEVEN:

When you're on the phone with them late at night and they hang up, you still miss them even when it was just two minutes ago.